“Missionary” is the Only Allowed Sexual Act For Married Couples – Nigerian Pastor in the UK

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A UK-based Nigerian pastor, Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo has warned married couples against unholy sexual acts. In a sermon delivered via a series of videos, The head pastor of Complete in Christ Church (CICC), claimed he saw people being punished in hell for their sexual sin. The pastor quoted Bible scriptures to support his views. The videos were published in 2014,  but went viral recently.

One of the videos warns in the description about, Christian Couples who ended up in Hell for defiling their beds because of STRANGE AND UNHOLY SEXUAL PRACTISES. Some of these immoral and unholy sexual acts include oral sex, masturbation, acts of bondage and positions like ‘doggy’ and ‘cowgirl’. Watch the videos and read the transcript of the relevant parts below...

Mormon Church Finally Admits Founder Married 40 Wives, One of Them 14 Years Old

The Mormon Church or the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, has posted an essay on its website acknowledging that their founder Joseph Smith was a polygamist and not the husband of one wife as is more commonly portrayed.

Pastor Yemisi On How She Met Matthew Ashimolowo And Obstacles To Their Marriage

Pastor Yemisi Ashimolowo, wife of pastor Mathew Ashimolowo, founder of Kingsway International Christian Church, has opened up about how the couple met in an interview with City People. The beautiful mother of four spoke about her 33 year old marriage, how they met and how a lecturer at UNILAG warned her not to marry the pastor because he had nothing.

American Preacher Refuses To Marry Black & White Because God Hates Race Mixing

My mouth hung open as I watched this video said to have been recorded just last year of Brother Donny Reagan of The Happy Valley Church of Jesus Christ in Tennessee. The preacher rails against interracial marriage and mixed race children using the examples of Black athletes wanting to marry white women. He ranted;

“Today we have so much fussing and stewing about this segregation of white and colored and everything. Why don’t they leave it alone? Let it be the way God made it. There is a move in the message, of blacks marrying whites, whites marrying blacks. And folks think that is alright."

Why The Marriages Of Top Nigerian Pastors Fail By Praise Fowowe

Praise Fowowe, self confessed sex addict turned relationship and sex counselor, wrote this thought provoking article that gives reasons why the marriages of some top pastors, like Pastor Chris Oyakhilome above, have ended in divorce.

1. A man of God is not God, he is a man: Unfortunately, we treat our men of God as if they are spirits who don't live in human body. What do we expect when we saddle them with our numerous issues. Unfortunately, many are not wise to say no to church members whose lives will continue if they drop dead.

Church members have academic, financial, and even marital problems, they go to the pastor as if the man is built to solve every problem and in our quest to prove that we are superstars, we also fail to embrace the use of professionals who are trained in these things because of our hidden fear of respect.

What stops a man of God who knows his marriage is in danger to take a back seat and allow a church member whose marriage is a model take a message on a Sunday that marriage is meant to be discussed? You are not built to solve every problem.

Pope Francis Holds Wedding For Couples Who Lived Together Before Marriage, Have Children

Pope Francis has today officiated the wedding of 20 couples at the Vatican, including several couples who had lived together before marriage, or had children out of wedlock.

According to BBC News, one of the couples included in the marriage solemnization ceremony was a man whose previous marriage was annulled getting married to a single mother who had a daughter from a previous relationship.

During the two-hour ceremony, Pope Francis told the couples that marriage was "not an easy road, it's sometimes a contentious trip, but that's life."

He said in his homily that families are "bricks that build society", but also believes that the church should forgive those who have sex outside marriage or who don't obey church teaching to the letter.

Adultery Is Not Anita Oyakhilome’s Primary Reason for Divorce, But Total Neglect

Facts have emerged at the weekend that the ground on which Pastor Anita Oyakhilome is seeking to divorce her husband, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, the President of Believers’ Love World Inc., popularly known as Christ Embassy, is not adultery but on behaviours that suggest that she cannot ‘reasonably be expected’ to  live with him.

There had been media reports that Anita decided to divorce Pastor Chris based on allegations of ‘adultery’ and ‘unreasonable behaviours’ but a copy of the court papers for the divorce process filed at the  Principal Registry of the Family Division (PRFD) of  the High Court of Justice in possession of THISDAY,  revealed that she applied for “divorce on the ground that the marriage has broken down irretrievably.”

In her statement of case in support of petition at PRFD with number FD14001650, Pastor Anita however, accused her husband of having inappropriate relationship with some of his female staff members.

Chris Oyakhilome Denies Adultery Allegations, Threatens to Sue The Press

Head pastor of Christ Embassy Church, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, has threatened to use legal action against journalists who publish false stories about him and his wife, during their on-going divorce. He also denied the adultery charges alleged against him as cited in the divorce filing by wife Rev. Anita Oyakhilome.

According to Saharareporters, the pastor, who spoke through his lawyer, Mr. Kemi Pinheiro (SAN), called the accusations of adultery a "false and malicious" attack against him and the church.

“The attention of our client, Rev. Chris Oyakhilome, and the church has been drawn to the wave of false, malicious and fabricated stories being published in the print and electronic media about his person, the church and a matrimonial cause between him and his wife," his attorney stated.

Sharply criticizing the recent coverage of the divorce proceedings, which the statement did not refute, the release claimed that publishers went so far as to fabricate claims that he had committed adultery against his wife, Anita.

2 Demands By Rev. Anita Tearing Apart Her Marriage To Pastor Chris

Since  the news broke of divorce proceedings between Pastor Chris and Anita Oyakhilome, church members of Christ Embassy have been taking sides, for or against either the husband or the wife.

Now, a close friend of Pastor Anita, and a founding church member of the UK Branch, has shared what she believes led to the marriage breakdown on the controversial Facebook page for Rev Anita's supporters.

Cyla Simpson says she took time to find out what is really happening and these are the things Rev Anita is asking for:

1. For Pastor Chris to, "please put the family in the timetable too. The times you don’t have any engagement, please come home. I need you and the children need you."

2. On Pastor Chris immorality, "to let all these ladies move out of White House and go and get houses outside... if they don’t already have one and allow them marry."

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Pastor Chris & Anita Oyakhilome’s Wedding Picture Released As Lawyers Say No To Reconciliation

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his wife, Anita Oyakhilome are above pictured on their wedding day more than 20 years ago. Those sympathetic to Pastor Chris released the picture to remind Pastor Anita of better times in hopes that she will reconsider the divorce.

She reportedly became a born-again Christian at the Believers Loveworld Campus Fellowship, Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma where Chris was still a pastor in the late 1980s. Supposedly, he has remained her one and only spiritual guide and mentor since their marriage until recently when things fell apart and she filed for divorce.

However, when City People Magazine contacted Pastor Anita’s lawyers, Attwaters Jameson Hill Solicitors, a UK-based full-service law firm, their spokesperson said there were not anticipating a reconciliation.

Pictures of Oyakhilome Daughters Surface as Man Sends Open Letter To Pastor Anita on Divorce

Charlene and Sharon Oyakhilome are the UK-based daughters of  Pastor Chris and Anita Oyakhilome. The older sister, Sharon celebrated her 21st birthday last month, and is a fast-rising gospel singer with the stage name Carissa Sharon Oyakhilome (CSO).

Pastor Anita Oyakhilome, the girl's mother,  had recently filed for divorce from her estranged husband, and the founder of Christ Embassy, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. Speculations of the split between the couple came to light after church members in London sympathetic to their Pastor Anita, had set up a Facebook page calling out Pastor Chris for being un-Christian in his marriage, and how he has been treating Pastor Anita in the church.

Following the revelation in the press that it was actually Pastor Anita that filed for divorce, Mr Emeka Asinugo, a London-based journalist, has sent out an open letter addressed to her.

See more pictures of the daughters and the open letter below...

Man Accuses The Redeemed Church in UK Of Causing The Breakdown of His Marriage

Ayadi Moniaye, a Nigerian man based in Manchester UK, claims the Redeemed Christian Church of God‘s “Jubilee Parish”, breaks up marriages so as to obtain permanent stays for female members, but in the process they tarnish the image of Nigerian husbands abroad.

He is accusing the church of brainwashing his Nigerian wife, and teaching her how to use the UK legal system to obtain permanent residence through him whe they broke up.

When they divorced in 2009, she also got their children, and the house and property they owned together. Since then, Ayadi said, she and the church have ganged up on him and are insinuating that he is insane.

Ayadi Moniaye is also claiming that the Redeemed Church's hierarchy in Nigeria are ignoring him after he has sent official letter to them to look into the case.

Don Moen Shares Sweet Kiss With His Wife in Paris For Their 41 Years Wedding Anniversary

The awesome praise and worship leader Don Moen shared a picture of him kissing his lovely wife on his Facebook page with the caption, "A beautiful night in Paris with Laura! Celebrating 41 years of marriage!"

Don has said in the past that he and wife, Laura, were married for twelve years before the first of their five children was born. The children were born over a seven year period.

This is simply amazing and inspiring!

Survey Proves That Christians are Not Saints, They Cheat Too

People that think just because someone is a born again Christian he or she has a new, and somewhat elevated, set of moral standards are in for a big surprise.

Ashley Madison is a website that exists to help people cheat. Their clientele come to them because they want to have an affair – since they are married or are looking for other married people to cheat with. The site isn’t bashful about the service that they offer, either: “Ashley Madison is the most recognized and reputable married dating company” – although “married dating” does seem like an oxymoron.

Recently, in order to find out the link between religion and infidelity the site asked its members across the world what their religious affiliation was. Of the 105,000 participants in the survey, 60,000 of them were from the United States.

Sudanese Christian Woman Freed After Appeal Court Rejects Death Sentence For Apostasy

Meriam Yehya Ibrahim, the Sudanese woman who had been sentenced to death for Apostasy has been freed. Meriam has been reunited with her husband after getting out of custody, said her lawyer, Mohaned Mustafa El-Nour. An appeals court found that an initial judgment against her was faulty, he said.

Ibrahim gave birth to a girl in a prison in the capital of Sudan last month, two weeks after she was sentenced to 100 lashes and to die by hanging.

Her husband, Daniel Wani, uses a wheelchair and "totally depends on her for all details of his life," her lawyer said. She was in the women's prison with her 20-month-old son, but Sudanese officials said the toddler was free to leave at any time, according to her lawyer.

On Pastor Chris Oyakilome and Wife's Separation, Members Ask, 'Where is Rev. Anita Oyakhilome?'

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome is the general overseer of Christ Embassy Church, along with his wife, Rev. Anita Oyakhilome. Pastor Chris is mostly based out of Nigeria and South Africa while his wife operates from the UK and Europe. This living apart has led to speculations of separation over the years, but the couple have withstood it all so far.

However, the latest information from the UK arm of the church seem to have moved beyond rumors that the couple have divorced or separated secretly from their marriage. The members are asking after the whereabouts of Pastor Anita on a Facebook page dedicated to teasing out the domestic and pastoral issues between Pastor Chris and Anita, and how it affects the church.

Pope Francis Calls For Love and No Condemnation For Divorced Couples

Pope Francis has said today that couples whose marriages have failed should be "accompanied" and not "condemned". He said this while responding to queries on his views on divorce and how the Roman Catholic church should treat divorced couples. Today, during the daily mass he holds in the Vatican, he said specifically on the subject of divorced couples,

Ten Lies The Church Tells Women

FOR CENTURIES, A PATRIARCHAL SYSTEM OF CONTROL HAS KEPT WOMEN IN SPIRITUAL CAPTIVITY THROUGH DISTORTION OF THE SCRIPTURES.  IT'S TIME TO DEBUNK THE MYTHS. 

By J. Lee Grady

Pastor Anselm Madubuko Marries Emmy Kosgei - Traditional Wedding Pictures

Pastor of Revival Assembly Church, Anselm Madubuko lost his first wife, Connie Madubuko, July last year, and decided earlier this year to get married again to Kenyan gospel artist Emmy Kosgei. The couple's traditional wedding took place in Kenya some days ago. RML wishes the couple a happy married life.

Pastor Kumuyi Offered to Resign Over His Son's Suspension From The Church

The wedding of John Kumuyi, son of General Suprintendent of the Deeper Life Bible Church, and Love Odih, daughter of the Deeper Life's Church group in Jamaica, started a wide-ranging conversation about the dressing of women in the church, especially for their weddings, and what could have been a double standard if the young couple were allowed to flout the church rules because they were children of high-ranking pastors.